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Didsbury House Hotel Wedding Photographer

Katie and Gordon’s Wedding was very special for a lot of reasons. Katie is one of my old friends from my Charity fundraising days, it’s always an honour to journey through my couples wedding day with them, but when it is already someone you know and have love for it makes it extra special.

Katie and Gordon had also been through a lot to get to this day. Their original wedding date was the weekend just after the Covid restrictions came in, meaning that they had to cancel their wedding and deal with the scary reality of a global pandemic all at the same time. After rescheduling their date the venue that they had booked went out of business, then there was more new waves and restrictions… I think we maybe had 3 dates in the diary before getting to Katie and Gordons actual real-life wedding day. In that time some wonderful things happened. Nora their beautiful baby girl had entered the world and they had found the perfect wedding venue close to Katie’s Family home in Didsbury.

It wasn’t all plain sailing, just a few days before the wedding Queen Elizabeth II died, the country was in mourning and I was scared for a moment that this would mean another postponement. Luckily such traditions like cancelling everything for 2 weeks when the head of the monarchy dies are no longer in place in the UK, so Katie and Gordon could finally have the wedding they had been waiting for.

Getting Ready

Katie got ready at her family home in Didsbury. I love it when my couples choose to use their family homes to get ready, it adds an extra layer to the story. I was able to photograph Nora’s beautiful little daisy dress hanging in the window of Katie’s old childhood bedroom, maybe Katie had daydreamed about what her future children would be like looking out of that very window. Katie also got into her wedding dress in her old bedroom, with her best friends surrounding her, old books, CD’s even an old childhood teddy watching on from the surrounding shelves. The life lived in this room, the songs listened to, books read, homework done and tears shed all leading up to this moment…

Didsbury House Hotel

Didsbury House Hotel is a beautiful Victorian Town House, with elegant arching Victorian door ways and huge windows to let all of that beautiful daylight in whatever the weather. Didsbury House comes fully equipped with it’s own bar and heated and sheltered outdoor space so that your guests will be properly looked after, but it does have a nice house party feeling to the place for those that are looking for a wedding venue with a more relaxed and informal vibe .

The Ceremony

One of my favourite photos of the day is Katie and Gordon leaving the ceremony, the joy and happiness on both of their faces, everything it took to get here, getting through Covid, numerous cancellations, wedding venues going bust, all of that excitement, disappointment, stress, planning and in that tempestuous journey to this moment they morphed from a unit of two into a family of three and brought their beautiful daughter Nora into the world and now finally, FINALLY they are husband wife. I feel this last photo so much. “We made it!”

11 Didsbury House

After the Wedding Katie and Gordon had a bit of time to chill out and have some nice informal portraits done while the wedding guests made their way to Didsbury House’s Sister Venue; 11 Didsbury House, the venue is just a short walk away and has a beautiful terrace and walled garden with borders bursting with seasonal flowers. 11 Didsbury House also has a large getting-ready space for the bridal party in the morning if you need it. While we made our way to the reception venue the guests organised themselves to ambush Katie and George with confetti on arrival and a great ambush it was!

Group Photos

After the confetti ambush Katie and Gordon’s guests enjoyed the garden, played games, had some drinks and canapes and we were able to grab some quick group photographs. Gordon’s best man had travelled to the wedding from down south and had been stuck in traffic during the ceremony so arrived later in the day. Gordon and his Groomsmen decided to mark his arrival by throwing confetti at him and luckily I was there to capture this fleeting moment.

Sofreh

In honour of Katie’s Iranian heritage one of her aunts put together a beautiful Sofreh, which is a Persian tradition of a table put together for the couple with lots of symbolic elements to bring the couple good luck and fertility in their future lives together. The table was comprised of lots of beautiful herbs, sweets and, spices and looked and smelt wonderful. You can find a list of the components and their historical and cultural meaning below:

The Mirror (Ayneye-Bakht) is symbolic of purity, light and brightness. In a traditional Sofreh Aghd Ceremony the first thing the groom would see in the mirror is his new wife removing her veil, Katie and Gordon didn’t do this put they did have a photograph together reflected in the mirror instead.

Two Candelabras (Shamdan) are placed next to the mirror and symbolize clarity and energy in the couple’s life together.

Traditional Persian Embroidered Cloth (Termeh) Traditional Persian silk or embroidered cloth usually handed down from generation to generation as part of the Sofreh Aghd and symbolises family and traditions.

The Holy Book A symbol of God’s blessing for the couple.

Spice Tray (Sini-Ye Aatel-O-Baatel) A beautiful decorative tray of seven herbs and spices to guard the couple against the evil eye.

Decorated Persian Flatbread (Naan Sangak) is a decorative display of flatbreads and symbolises prosperity for the feast and the couple’s life together. It can be accompanied with feta cheese and fresh garden herbs.

Decorated Eggs, Almonds, Walnuts and Hazelnuts Symbolic of fruitfulness, fertility and abundance. It is the hope to have a marriage as strong as the nut shells.

Rock candy (Shakheh Nabat): Symbolizes a sweetened life for the newlyweds.

Honey (Asal): The honey represents sweetness in the couple’s life together.

Two Sugar Cones (Kalleh Ghand): This is to shower the couple with sugary sweetness for happiness for a good life together.

Wild Rue (Espand) is a herb burned as part of a ritual for purification. It is believed to keep away the evil eye and bring good health.

Sweets and Pastries (Shirini): This is to symbolise the sweetness of life. 

Rose Water (Golaab): Rose water is part of the immense history and culture surrounding a traditional Persian wedding ceremony. With its distinct taste, fragrance and influence in Iran, Golaab is the perfect fragrance to accompany the Sofreh Aghd. It is symbolic of the love that flows between the couple.

Sugar Cloth (Tureh Ghand): A piece of material, made of silk or other fine fabric, to be held over the Couple’s heads throughout the ceremony by happily married female relatives and friends.

Speeches and Portraits

After the speeches Katie and Gordon braved the rain and headed out again for some portraits. I like to keep my portrait sessions short and snappy with 10-15 minutes after the ceremony and then the same again later in the day (if we have time) and you like it. The second portrait session can be loads of fun as you have eaten, drank and had a good time with all of your guests already and to be honest a lot of couples comment on how it’s nice to get a little break from the day. Katie and Gordon had a little mess about in the door way and then we retreated to the greenhouse for a few more photos before making our way back in and getting the party started!

Thornbridge Hall Wedding

Thornbridge Hall

Thornbridge Hall is a grade II listed stately home in the peak district, set in 100 acres of parkland and 14 acres of formal gardens even inch of the place is oozing with personality. Maybe even multiple personalities, the building has had many owners over the years all with different styles and tastes and this comes together in the most fantastic, spell bindingly way. The first thing I noticed when I arrived at Thornbridge Hall was just how many pairs of eyes there are looking at you for the faces calved into the wooden mantelpieces and fire places, to the garden statues whose eyes follow you around as you make your way around the extensive gardens. All of this character means your wedding guests will have plenty to look at and explore on your wedding day, it feels like being on a film set and the mix of styles makes it a fancinating place to wander around.

The Carraige House; a clock towered, glass walled dining hall even boasts a secret underground night club to spring on your guests later in the evening once the party has already been started, again making the experience of being in this venue an adventure in itself.

Thornbridge Hall is a family home and part of the gardens are open to the public, so it isn’t a venue that you can stay in overnight but if you are looking for something with the wow factor, breathtaking English countryside and a wedding venue that is as beautiful and weird as you are… This might just be the place.

Getting ready at Thorn bridge hall

I knew I loved this venue as soon as I saw the suite Ruth was getting ready in, not only is The India Suite huge giving you and your bridal party loads of room to get ready in but the light coming through the huge leaded glass windows was beautiful and it made for an epic start to the day. Having a nice big room to get ready in can really help take the stress out of the morning, with everyone having enough space to relax, take time out and get ready it can really start one of the most important days of your life off with the right tone, plus with loads of space and light you can get some lovely photos of that morning too.

While the Bridal Party had an epic Bridal suite to get ready in, George’s Lads pad downstairs did take the biscuit with a pool table and private bar, the groom and groomsmen had plenty to keep them busy and calm their nerves in the morning. I always think sometimes if the men don’t have much to do in the morning it can let the nerves set in. George and his groomsmen spent the morning greeting wedding guests, playing pool, having a few beers while planning their hilarious and heartfelt speeches. Two perfect wedding mornings running along side one and other.

The Ceremony

Ruth and Georges beautiful ceremony took place in The Great Hall of Thornbridge Hall, surrounded by stunning Autumnal flower arrangements by the very talented Swallows and Damsons (check them out for some seriously beautiful flowers!). The couples popularity really showed filling the ground floor with guests and then having the rest their friends and family watch the ceremony from balconies over The Great Hall. The ceremony was heartfelt and emotional, with tears and laughter throughout before the couple made their way out of The Great Hall to be met in the back garden by their wedding guests for one of the longest confetti walks I have seen in a while!

After the confetti had been thrown and everyone had had a good old mingle, we grabbed some nice relaxed group shots against the beautiful back drop of the autumnal Derbyshire hills before Ruth and George came for a wander with me through Thornbrigde Halls beautiful manicured gardens to get some lovely relaxed wedding portraits and give them a bit of time out to enjoy each others company of their wedding day.

If you are thinking of having your wedding at Thornbridge Hall there are plenty of different places to hold your ceremony; for couples that want to brave an outdoors ceremony and feel those wonderful Derbyshire manicured lawns underneath your feet as you say I do there is the South Lawn Temple and for smaller indoor ceremonies there is the Music Room or if you are having a bigger winter wedding like Ruth and George you can take advantage The Great Hall and your friends and family watch you for two levels.

The Carriage House

Ruth and George held their wedding reception in The Carriage House an old stable building that has been beautifully renovated and given a glass ceiling and front. On their tables waiting for their guests they had some autumnal flower arrangements, hand calved wooden name places and homemade marmalade!

After the Speeches

After the speeches it was time to get the wedding cake cut and get the party started and Ruth and George didn’t waste any time before they got on the dance floor and started tearing it up.

A Shout Out to Some Awesome Suppliers!

WHITE HART INN LYDGATE - A WINDSWEPT WINTER WEDDING

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White Hart inn Lydgate

Amy and Ben chose the White Hart Inn in Lydgate after looking at loads of different venues including some as far a field as Vegas! They loved the White Hart Inn for it’s warm and friendly vibe, delicious award winning food, open fires and beautiful views making it the perfect location for their Winter Wedding.

Amy got ready at the one of the White Harts cottages just a short walk away from the venue and had a lovely busy morning, with her bridesmaids, parents and family members popping in and out to give their best wishes before Amy and left the cottage to brave storm Dennis and most importantly go and marry Ben!

The Ceremony

Amy and Ben got married surrounded by their friends and family in the large ceremony room at the White Hart Inn with Storm Dennis howling outside the the large open fire roaring inside keeping Amy and Ben and all their wedding guests nice and toastie for the duration of the ceremony. There was lots of laughter and these two couldn’t keep the massive grins off their faces for a millisecond!

After the Ceremony

Amy and Ben were joined by their beautiful dogs Dexter and George, to have some very important family time before they headed off into the storm to grab some lovely windswept wedding portraits of just the two of them.

CONFETTI, SPEECHES AND SNEAKY NIGHT TIME PORTRAITS

After braving the storm Amy and Ben headed back inside to warm up and be ambushed by their wedding guests who were more than happy to chuck a load of confetti at them before they headed in to the wedding breakfast and some wonderful heartfelt speeches. After the speeches were finished and everyone had finished their delicious food me Amy and Ben sneaked off to take some night time portraits but all was not as it seemed, Amy had a card up her sleeve that Ben knew nothing about… A surprise that was secretly being set up while we went about taking our night time couple photos….

Bringing Vegas to Lydgate

Amy had thought that if they couldn’t have their wedding in Vegas, Amy would bring Vegas to them! Ben had absolutely no idea! After playing some casino games, they feasted on pizza, cut the cake and hit the dance floor to party the night away with their friends and family.

Thank you for having me Amy and Ben you threw an absolute belter of a wedding! xx

A Shout Out to Amy and Ben’s Awesome Wedding Suppliers:

Dress: Anna Campbell Bridal purchased from Jean Jackson Courture
Shoes: Rainbow Club
Wedding Jacket: The Mermaid Effect
Trainers: Converse from Office
Suits: Next
Flowers: DIY
Band: Pac Band
Casino Tables: Ace of Diamonds fun casino hire
Hair & Make: The Bridal Luxe (Charlotte Riley for Hair & Charlotte Laskey from Make up)
Cake: Sweets by Sarah
Videographer: https://www.facebook.com/KukjansProduction/

Winter Wedding at The Old Grammar School Middleton

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December wedding

I LOVE photographing weddings in December. There’s Christmas magic in the air, people are excited, there are twinkling Christmas trees with carefully wrapped presents scattered beneath them, stockings hanging up on fire places, cups of mulled wine and there are fairy lights EVERYWHERE. Note: Wedding photographers bloody love fairy lights! AND people are ready to PARTY!!!

The Victoria Hotel

Chelsey and Darren chose the Victoria Hotel in Oldham as their ceremony venue, the hotel has a beautiful Victorian ceremony room and 92 rooms for guests to stay at the night before and evening of the wedding. Chelsey and her bridesmaids had their hair and make up done and got ready together in Chelsey and Darren’s room while having a good laugh together, sipping champagne and keeping any wedding nerves at bay with some good old fashioned larking about.

The Ceremony

Chelsey and Darren exchanged their wedding vows in front of their closest family and friends in the beautiful victorian ceremony room at the Victoria hotel, before making there way out to the hotel foyer and bar to enjoy and few drinks together and have a good catch up.

The Wedding Bus

When organising a wedding it’s always a good idea to consider transport for guests, even more so in the winter months when the weather is usually much colder. Chelsey and Darren thought about this when organising their day in December, they wanted their guests to be able to relax after the ceremony and have a drink and liked the idea of everyone travelling to the reception venue together so booked a Red London Bus so that everyone could relax and stay together, there’s something quite nice about keeping the wedding guests together in this way and it means that the festive atmosphere of the wedding continues without being interrupted by having to wait for an Uber or getting stuck in traffic, the celebration and conversations continue on the bus and as you can see from the top window the party was already in full swing.

Winter Wedding Portraits

If you are planning a winter wedding one of the things to consider is what time the sun sets on the day you are getting married. Chelsey and Darren got married on the 7th of December and chose to have their ceremony at 1pm meaning that they had plenty of time to get married, have some drinks, jump on a bus, get their group shots, munch some canapes and get some couple shots before the sun set at 3.51pm.

If you are planning a winter wedding and have booked a later ceremony it can sometimes be an idea to have some photographs such as your group photographs and couple shots before the ceremony if you love the natural light light look and your aren’t too superstitious about seeing one and other before hand. Otherwise your photographer should be able to do some shots for you using flash, it’s a good idea to have a chat with your photographer if you are planning a later ceremony to see what photographs will be possible after sun set.

Chelsey and Darren didn’t want to spend ages on photos as they were itching to get inside and join their friends and family for the party so we had a nice relaxed portrait session where they had a little wander and mess about looking magnificent as I’m sure you will agree they both do.

Later on when the sun had gone down we also took a few portraits inside The Old Grammar School as Chelsey and Darren loved the venue and wanted some of the atmosphere of the venue captured in their wedding portraits.

The Old Grammar School Middleton

Chelsey and Darren were both really excited to have their wedding reception at The Old Grammar School in Middleton as they fell in love with the building when they first went to see it. The Old Grammar School was built in 1412 and is a Grade 2 listed building. The School has tons of character was the perfect setting for a beautiful winter wedding with the tons of fairy lights and large roaring open fire as soon as Chelsey and Darren walked through the door and saw how beautiful the venue looked they were both moved to tears.

Ping Pong

I love a good game at a wedding. It’s nice to have something to keep your guests busy and although I see a lot of lawn games and fun things to do and Summer and Spring time weddings, Winter Weddings deserve some fun too! I have to admit this was the first time I’ve seen a Ping Pong table at a wedding before and it was a massive hit with the guests, even the ones who couldn’t actually hot anything!

Wedding Breakfast and Speeches

While the guests were busy trying to find the lost ping pong ball under some furniture we sneaked off to get some portraits upstairs in The Old Grammar School. Before Chelsey and Darren headed back down stairs to get enjoy their wedding breakfast and speeches. There was a lot of laughter and a few sneaky peeps at the football before one more portrait of Chelsey and Darren in front of the epic amount of fairy lights before I bid them farewell and set off into the wintery night and the party rumbled on.

A Shout Out to Chelsey and Darren’s Awesome Wedding Suppliers

Dress: Adele Howarth Winstanley Bride - https://www.ahwbride.com/

Suit: https://www.slaters.co.uk/

Shoes: https://www.rainbowclub.co.uk/

Flowers: Milly Davey Flowers - https://www.millydaveyflowers.com/

Jacket: Mimosa Couture  - https://etsy.me/2w8KqZq

Cake: Homemade 

Table plan: Homemade

Catering: The Old Grammar School - https://oldgrammarschool.com/

Bus hire: http://www.weddingbuses.co.uk/

Venue dresser: - https://www.millydaveyflowers.com/

Bowlicious provided the chairs and tablecloths - https://www.bow-licious.co.uk/

Hair - Emma at Studio Em https://instagram.com/studioem_?igshid=1f7vn5bfplksk

Makeup - Ashley Elizebeth https://instagram.com/makeupbyashleyuk?igshid=y9bljxbycp7d

Altskeith Country House Wedding, Loch Ard, Scotland.

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Helen and Jameson got married at Altskeith Country House on Loch Ard in Scotland. It was a bit of a trek for their friends and family some coming from as far as Liverpool, Manchester, down south and even Canada!!! I overheard that getting off a 12 hour flight and then navigating Scottish country roads in a hire car, in the dark, on the other side of the road is quite something! But it was most definitely worth it!

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Altskeith Country House

Altskeith Country House is the perfect venue for couples that love nature, the venue sits on the edge of Loch Ard, overlooking the Loch and Ben Lomond and sitting right in the centre of Queen Elizabeth Forest Park you are surrounded by forests, nature and beautiful scenery, with very little light pollution about the starry skies at night are a dream.

At Altskeith Country House there are plenty of different options for an outdoor ceremony, you can get married on the lawns alongside the Loch, by the waterfall, on the beach of Loch Ard, under the beech tree over the small bridge in the trees. If it rains you can have your ceremony in the function room over looking the Loch and Ben Lomond, the glass wall in the function room is removable so if you want to be able to breath is some of that sweet rainy air while you are getting married you can while staying dry as well something alive relatively dry. It’s all to play for.

Getting Ready

Helen and Jameson both got ready onsite at Altskeith Country house. Jameson took the cottage on the outside of the building with his groomsmen while Helen stayed in the main building with her friends and family. Helen’s sister Harriet who is a mega talented make up artist did Helen’s hair and make up for her while the girls enjoyed some champagne together and watched for wedding guests arriving at the venue from the loft room windows.

The Ceremony

Helen and Jameson chose to get married under The Beech Tree on the lawn as that is where Jameson proposed! I know just when you thought it couldn’t get more prefect! Well it has, so get over it!

As Helen and Jameson were already technically married they had a humanist hand fasting ceremony, with plenty of heart felt readings from Helen and Jamesons friends and family and Helen walked down the aisle to music Jameson had composed for her on their anniversary. No you stop it!

Confetti, Drinks and Magic

After being attacked with some dried petal confetti by their friends and family they chilled out for a bit and presented their wedding guests with a boat load of booze and a magician.

Then after some family photos and a few quick portraits hiding out of Scotlands blazing sun. Yes really! We headed in for speeches, some cracker pulling, plenty of giggles and a few tears. Oh and some amazing food from the kitchen at Altskeith Country House obviously!

Cake Cutting and Speeches

After our little expedition we headed back for Helen and Jameson to pretend to cut the massive Cake (Helen and Jameson loved the cake design so much they thought it would be a crime to eat it, so they got a fake one made so they could keep it forever!) then it was straight into the main room for dinner and speeches.

Loch Ard

Once everyone was fed we popped back out for a little walk on the beach of Loch Ard and a boat trip. I bloody love boats as any of my friends will tell you, it’s hard to walk past a boat or a boat trip with out me forcing a load of people on it and shouting that they all better stop crying and start enjoying themselves, but that is another story.

On the boat Jameson got the rowing job while Helen has the job of alternating between pulling silly faces and looking pretty which she did like a pro… As you can see. Even the midges stayed at home, or all hung out outside a night club or something.

The Party

Then it was party time!!! Helen and Jameson opened the dance floor with their first dance and then passed over the reigns to the Scottish Ceilidh Band who had everyone wizzing around the room like smiling Tazmanian devils, high of life and fine wine.

As the night drew in the fire pits came out and guests feasted on toasted marsh mellows and pizza before greeting Helen and Jameson with sparklers before they left the building.


A beautiful wedding for some beautiful humans. Thanks for having me along for the ride Helen and Jameson!

More weddings in Scotland please!













Supplier Shout Out!

Dress: Dress Designed by Mori Lee, supplied by Blush Boutique in Upper Mill

Kilt : Kilt and suit hired from Kilts 4 U in Glasgow. Ties in family tartan made by The Scotland Shop.

Florist: Cherry Blossom - https://www.flowersbycherryblossom.co.uk

Bridesmaid Dresses:: The Infinite Collection by Wed2B

Entertainment?: Magician and DJ - http://www.johnkingevents.com/magician-glasgow

Ceilidh Bandhttp://www.scottishceilidh-band.co.uk/the-band

Cake : http://www.studio8cakes.co.uk/

Hairdresser and Make Up Artist? : Harriet Westcott @harri.hmua

Wedding Favors: Crackers made by Helen and Jameson

Hand Drawn Map Table Plan: fentimansadventure

Slide Show Music Jameson Bell.








Shotton Grange Wedding Photographer

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Shotton Grange

Shotton Grange is a Georgian Manor and coaching house turned wedding venue. It’s a beautiful big house sitting in six acres of land with woodland, lawns and a big walled garden with lots of beautiful flowers for guests to hang out in on sunny days.

Alex and Kris chose Shotton Grange because they wanted a fun informal wedding celebration with their closest friends and family, they wanted it to be colourful and fun just like them. Determined to do their own thing Alex opted out of wearing traditional wedding dress and treated herself to s snazzy outfit from ASOS instead while Kris wore a kilt and they both looked bloody smashing.

The Ceremony

Alex was walked down the aisle by her father and then her and Kris had their wedding ceremony performed by a humanist celebrant in front of their closest friends and family. There was lots of giggles and tears during the hand fasting ceremony and generally Alex and Kris looking totally besotted with each other all in the beautiful setting of Shotton Grange’s light and airy ceremony room. After the ceremony Alex and Kris were accosted by their weddings guests with a tray load of natural petal confetti and also greeted by a few amorous wasps.

Walled Garden and Portraits

After the confetti throwing the wedding party made their merry way into Shotton Grange’s beautiful walled garden, where they were greeted with fruity drinks and sunshine. Alex and Kris opted out of formal group shots and just had a few photographs of themselves together. Leaving more time for them to enjoy the day with guests and giving me more time to grab those lovely natural reportage shots. Winner, winner! Veggie roast dinner!

The Wedding Breakfast and Speeches

While Alex, Kris and their wedding guests were relaxing in the garden, the hard working team at Shotton Grange were busy transforming the ceremony room into a beautiful, colourful dining area for the dinner and speeches.

Alex is an illustrator and graphic designer and chose the colour pallet for the room, keeping the centre pieces simple and effective. Alex chose yellow, blue and white bottles with pink candles and had grapefruit and oranges chopped in half showing there wonderful natural patterns and colours. Alex also designed the awesome ribbon table planner you can see in the photo below that really brought the room together. Check out Alex’s bloody awesome illustrations here: http://www.alexdavy.net/

Speeches were a fun filled affair with hilarious and heartfelt speeches from Kris’s Grandad Kevin, Alex’s Mum Sheila, Kris’s Best Man Jay, Alex’s maid of honour Megs and of course the man of the moment Kris.

Cake cutting and First Dance

After the speeches and a bit a bit of milling about with guest outside Alex and Kris cut their cake, which was a fruity little number in akin with day and then went into their first dance to kick off the party! A belting party it was. Thanks for having me Alex and Kris. xx

Supplier Shout Out!

Allyson Hayter Celebrant https://tynewearcelebrants.co.uk/

Venue Shotton Grange .

Cake Great British Cupcakery,

Kris’s Kilt Slaters

Alex’s top, skirt shoes and earings from ASOS

The invites / menus / order of service / door numbers were all designed by http://www.alexdavy.net/

Engagement ring by Lisa Eldridge its ‘The Grace’ but set in gold rather than silver